Community Guidelines
A short reminder of how we ask every member to carry themselves, followed by guidance and resources from the Jamaat on marriage.
The Basics
How We Ask You to Carry Yourself
- Remain respectful in every message, whether or not a match progresses.
- Speak the truth — about yourself, your circumstances and your intentions — at all times.
- If you are no longer interested, say so kindly rather than disappearing without word.
- Keep correspondence within appropriate bounds until families are formally involved.
- Stay flexible on minor differences — height, complexion, physical features, or profession — and keep the bigger picture in view.
- Remember that whether someone is genuinely who they say they are is something you must satisfy yourself of — please see our Terms of Use.
Zero tolerance, no exceptions
- Seeking a marriage for the purpose of obtaining a visa or immigration status.
- Misrepresenting your marital status, health, age or personal circumstances.
- Harassment, disrespect, or inappropriate conduct towards any member.
- Sharing another member's details outside this platform without their consent.
Guidance From the Jamaat
Resources on Marriage
These are genuine resources published by the Ahmadiyya Muslim Jama'at and its auxiliary organisations, offered here for your benefit. Virtual Rishta Naata is not affiliated with the Jama'at — these links simply point to their own official publications.
Books & Chapters
Articles
Friday Sermons
Matrimonial Matters in General
Guidance from Hazrat Khalifatul Masih on Rishta Nata and matrimonial affairs within the community.